My name is Dwight Malloy, I run a non-profit 501c3 youth organization that works with boys and girls from a wide spectrum of backgrounds. I would like to first thank Viper Bats for asking me to contribute to this blog.
I run the non-profit as a volunteer offering training at low cost or free to people from all types of backgrounds, ages and skill levels. I train players from 8 years old to players that I have worked with for years that are playing D1 college ball and in the minor leagues. I enjoy working with all of them, they all present different challenges and obstacles that they want to overcome to achieve their goals.
This post is about a young man that is a junior in high school. He attends one of the top academic high schools in Cincinnati, Ohio. I have only had the chance to work with this young man for just over a year and I do not hesitate to tell anyone, he is one of the most gifted and hardworking players I have ever had the chance to work with in the years I have been able to be blessed to do this type of training. This young man was offered and verbally accepted a very large baseball scholarship to Ohio State. He also has been scouted by pro teams quite prominently, but more than all of that the young man is just a quality person. Several weeks ago this young man was diagnosed with cancer the day after one of his best hitting sessions he had ever had with me. The treatment of chemo and other drugs has begun and the prognosis is very promising for this young man to have a full recovery, which has just been the greatest news since this happened.
This young man met this head on, never waivered and told me it was just another hurdle in life and he was going to overcome it. He has been nothing except positive and has provided strength to those around him while he was the one going through this battle with cancer.
I share this story because as a hitting instructor in the place I run I get the chance to work with people for extended periods. I develop great relationships with the players and their families. I am very fortunate to be able to do this, becuse of how the non-profit is run, players come in a lot. I don’t accept any pay for my services and I truly believe it is the reason Ihave the success rate I do. I do it because I love it, not for a paycheck. I take a different approach in that, I believe it is my failings as a teacher if the player does not understand the concepts I am teaching them. I believe this because if you spend any time learning about hitting, there are endless amount of ideas and techniques being taught. I believe that each player can be reached, as an instructor it is my job to find the way that they understand.
Anyway, the message that I wanted to send with the title of enjoy the game is this, regardless of what your involvement is in baseball be it a player, coach, instructor, parent, or just a fan of the game, I know that their is no time clock in baseball, but understand that the last inning, at bat, or pitch will happen to all of us at some point. As a player please ENJOY THE GAME every pitch, every sunflower seed, every rain delay, the friends you meet and make along the way, the hot streaks, the cold streaks, etc because when you stop playing you will miss all of it.
I read this quote and have it posted on a mirror at the indoor training facility and I will leave you with it. ” Look in the mirror everyday and ask yourself, how much of my life have I wasted to this point? Do you like the answer?”